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When I first ed Tinder, in the summer ofit was like gaining entry to the VIP section of an exclusive Justin Hemmes nightclub: a hidden oasis where everything felt so new, so exciting, yet so innocent. I matched, chatted and sexted with girls — pretty girls — of all colours and creeds.

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For the first time in my life, I was able to experience what it meant to have what had always come so effortlessly to many of my white mates. But things changed when I returned to the app a year later, when the barriers to online dating were well-and-truly broken down.

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The vocal, open invitations that had ly been enthusiastically extended my way were replaced by letters of rejection in the form of a non-response. I was back to being denied entry by the Ivy nightclub bouncers, relegated to hearing day-old details of my mates' tales of their successful Tinder conquests. The science shows certain groups getting pushed to the bottom of the pile on Tinder, but societal attitudes mean talking about it is taboo.

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Credit: Andy Zakeli. I tried everything to change the way I presented myself — smiling and smouldering looks, casual and dramatic poses, flamboyant and conservative clothes, playful and intense introductions — but was always dismissed in the same fashion: immediately and without explanation.

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After spending nearly all my life reinventing my personality in order to impress others and adapting my values to fit in, it turned out the one thing I couldn't change was the only thing that mattered: my race. The most effective way I found to keep people from skipping right over me was to fully embrace the stereotypes they already believed.

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InOKCupid released a study confirming that a racial bias was present in our dating preferences. It found non-black men applied a penalty to black women ; and all women preferred men of their own race but they otherwise penalised both Asian and black men. The sample drew on the behaviour of 25 million s between andwhen there was a decrease in the of people who said they preferred to date someone of their own race.

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Macquarie University senior lecturer Dr Ian Stephen said that some of the biggest predictors of who we end up with is what our parents look like and the people we encounter in the neighbourhoods in which we grow up. He said the online landscape as described by OKCupid — primarily consisting of white people who typically prefer their own race — additionally disadvantages people who are already discriminated against.

He agreed this could have a compounding, negative effect, especially in apps like Tinder — where 'popular' s are promoted and 'disliked' s are dropped to the bottom of the pile. Emma Tessler, founder of New York-based matchmaking website, The Dating Ringwhich sets people up on dates, said the OKCupid data is consistent with their her service's experience.

She said this is not limited to online dating but is reflective of society's biases.

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Dating websites and apps like Tinder have created such a vast pool of potential partners — millions of matches — that people have to start to generalise and draw the line somewhere, she said. It's a crazy thing to say. It's like guys who say they're not attracted to women who aren't really skinny — as though that isn't totally societal.

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Clinical psychologist Dr Vincent Fogliati said that since the civil rights movements of the 60s and 70s people are much less willing to publicly share, or admit to harbouring, racial stereotypes. But researchers have "developed ingenious ways to detect that some bias is lurking there. He said that one method, immediate word associations, demonstrated that people with underlying racist attitudes — people who denied they were racist — took longer to associate positive words, such as 'good' and 'warm,' with people or groups of the opposite race.

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He agreed this immediate response mechanism was similar to the interface of Tinder and online dating apps where people make snap judgments based on a picture. Dr Fogliati said stereotypes are necessary as a survival mechanism, however stereotypes — untested or incorrect — can quickly become a self-fulfilling prophecy: that is, we become biased to the things that confirm our beliefs — also known as confirmation bias.

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University of Western Sydney lecturer Dr Alana Lentin said that society has entered a period of "post racialism," where everyone believes that racial thinking is a thing of the past. She said that society needs to acknowledge there's a problem before it can start to find a solution.

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It's not fair if you want to use that terminology. It's time we start thinking about those things.

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The first level of anti racist struggle is listening. It was only when I played the race card that I found some modicum of success on online dating websites and Tinder. My yoga photos were a big hit among the spiritually-inclined white girls who were third eye-curious.

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However, as soon as I asked for a date, or to meet up, the conversation would go dead. Who knows, maybe it was my fault after all? Tinder has a race problem nobody wants to talk about. Please try again later.

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The Sydney Morning Herald. By Mahesh Sharma Updated February 15, — 1. Save Log inregister or subscribe to save articles for later. Normal text size Larger text size Very large text size. At an added disadvantage Macquarie University senior lecturer Dr Ian Stephen said that some of the biggest predictors of who we end up with is what our parents look like and the people we encounter in the neighbourhoods in which we grow up.

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Institutionalised generalisations Emma Tessler, founder of New York-based matchmaking website, The Dating Ringwhich sets people up on dates, said the OKCupid data is consistent with their her service's experience. Follow Digital Life on Twitter. this article. Social media.